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Arriving in Sapa, after the unpleasantness of Hanoi, was like a breath of fresh air. The endeavor to reach this secluded mountain town involved an overnight train (which was actually quite comfortable) and an hour-long ascent by minibus. Sapa is a colorful town, nestled in the mountains of northwestern Vietnam very near the Chinese border. The town overlooks a lush valley of green and gold with stunning rice terraces cascading down the hills. Tribespeople from the surrounding farming villages come to Sapa to buy, sell and trade. The Black H’mong and the Red Dzao are among the most prevalent villagers on the streets of Sapa, distinguishable by their clothing, peddling brightly colored embroidery, silver jewelry, and other handicrafts. Though most of them have no formal education and are illiterate, they are curious and engaging with tourists. Many of the younger girls speak functional English. The village women are strikingly short in stature, many topping off around four feet, making them seem doll-like in their traditional clothes. We found them sweet and endearing with a few of the older women who got ornery in their native language when we weren’t buying what they were selling. It was cute.
We had arrived on a Saturday, excited to observe an interesting local tradition called the Love Market. Supposedly, when young men and women from the surrounding villages reach marriageable age, they come to the Saturday Love Market for an evening of traditional dancing. Apparently it’s the ethnic minority equivalent of speed dating. If a pair decides that they like each other, they marry after a very brief courtship. As it turns out, the tradition continues in other parts of this remote region, however, the Sapa Love Market caters more to tourists now than to actual matchmaking. We peered over a crowd of tourists encircling young villagers as they performed the dances but the event lacked the authenticity that we had hoped for and we soon returned to the colorful stalls of the market.
Sapa is known for its many opportunities to trek among the dazzling contoured valley and indigenous villages. From the city, we found one of the trailheads and started down into the valley. The views were truly amazing with mountains and fields covering the entire spectrum of green, cool white mist rising and falling over the peaks, and sunlight dancing off the glassy surfaces of the waterlogged rice paddies. We watched farmers planting seedlings and a group of young Black H’mong girls preparing to work in the fields. Cows and water buffaloes grazed the fields and two very pregnant sows provided a snorting roadblock. Every turn on the path opened up a new breathtaking view.
When we reached the beginning of the long, steep ascent back to Sapa, some local men were waiting to whisk us up the winding hill road on the back of their motorbikes for a small fee. Now that’s my kind of trekking! We were back in town by early afternoon with hours of daylight remaining. We were still feeling energetic and awestruck by the valley so we decided to rent a motorbike for the rest of the afternoon. This was an easy task since we had not been able to enter or exit our hotel without at least three offers for motorbike rentals. I think the village men must leave their wives to do the heavy work while they sit around with their friends and ask “Motorbike? Motorbike?” as tourists walk by. In any case, after a quick exchange of dong, we were on our way.
Aaron had read about a scenic mountain road leading to the highest mountain pass in Vietnam, Tram Ton Pass and, after a quick stop for petrol, we headed in what we thought was the right direction. Sapa was a small town and we had a map – we should have been able to find our way with no problem – but the roads were poorly marked and the locals spoke little English. After a series of wrong turns, things became a bit heated. The driver scolded the passenger for singing instead of navigating which prompted the passenger to politely remind the driver that bad attitudes are contagious. A few more wrong turns followed before we finally found our way.
May is the beginning of the rainy season in Vietnam. For Sapa, that meant a light shower in the early morning and another in the afternoon. It was great for the rice but made the winding, unsealed mountain roads a challenge. We ascended slowly and carefully until we reached a section of saturated dirt road, resulting in inches-deep muck. Initially thinking the road impassable, we stopped to make a careful assessment. After watching two locals on motorbikes cruise through what looked like the most treacherous stretch, we decided to go for it too. It was a muddy mess but soon improved to wet gravel. We continued on, pulling out our poncho when the mist thickened to drizzle, and took in the valley landscape. The more we distanced ourselves from Sapa, the more clearly surprised the locals were to see two tourists braving the rainy muck on a motorbike. We were reassured that we weren’t the first gringo pioneers to cross their path when a young boy and girl guiding a herd of water buffalo called out to us for money.
We reached Tram Ton Pass, shrouded in a fog so thick that we could only see about ten feet in front of us. If there was a climactic view from the top, the fog obscured it completely. We decided to turn around and head back to Sapa.
Aaron has been riding motorcycles for over ten years – he is a careful, conservative rider. We have rented motorbikes in countries around the world because we enjoy the freedom they provide in exploring islands and small cities. I always ride on the back because I like to hold onto my husband, feel the wind in my face, and take in the scenery. I was doing exactly that as we made our way back down the wet gravel roads. We eventually reached the muddy stretch of road that we had initially deemed impassable on the way up. “This is where it gets mucky again,” Aaron said.
Suddenly, without any warning at all, the front tire of the motorbike slid in the mud, diminishing Aaron’s ability to control it. Engrossed in the scenery, I didn’t realize what was happening until we were falling, in slow motion, on our left side. We hit the ground with a thud, landing in a puddle of mud. We had been going slowly so the impact was minor but I felt the outside of my left kneecap hit the ground first. It hurt, but not badly. Instinctively, I crawled in the mud away from the bike and turned to see Aaron’s leg trapped under it. I screamed in panic but he assured me that he was okay and immediately moved to lift the bike off his leg. It took us a few minutes to get over the initial shock and determine that we were both okay. I had broken the fall with my hand, which had a few small cuts. Aaron had landed on his hip and had some bloody scrapes on his left arm. I must have been in a mild state of shock because when Aaron asked me if we should get back on the bike, it seemed like an utterly preposterous notion. It occurred to me then that we had to get back on the bike. No one was going to drive along this remote mountain road in his Ford pickup and offer us a lift.
Never have I been so happy to relinquish a motorbike as I was that afternoon in Sapa. Our clothes and shoes were caked with mud and all we wanted was a hot shower and a hot meal. The excitement of the wipeout had wiped us out.
We were both a little sore when we woke the next morning but thankful for surviving the fall relatively unscathed. It could have been worse. We were scheduled to depart that evening on the overnight train back to Hanoi and decided to take it easy all day. Our most ambitious endeavor was walking fifteen minutes up the road for a late breakfast at a French café called Baguette & Chocolat. It was worth the walk for a proper cappuccino.
As we enjoyed a leisurely breakfast at a table by the window, a Black H’mong woman tried to sell me handicrafts through the glass for at least five minutes before finally giving up. Later, we watched as an old man herded a half-dozen water buffaloes up the road. It is moments like these that reaffirm why we love to travel: to see things that we would never see in our former suburban bubble; to learn about people’s lives in faraway places – to witness their struggles and their joy; for the education of a lifetime. One day soon, we will return to some semblance of a normal life. While the details of our adventures will eventually fade from our memory, the overall experience has already changed us in immeasurable ways.
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Upon returning to Hanoi from our peaceful cruise on Halong Bay, we had a day-and-a-half to putter around the city before departing once again for Sapa. Our budget hotel was a tall, narrow building in the Old Quarter – a maze of noisy, congested lanes. We spent one full day exploring the area and quickly determined that to be sufficient.
Back on the boat, the rest of the day invited total relaxation. Some people went kayaking while the less ambitious of us lounged on the sun deck and basked in the picturesque tranquility of Halong Bay. It was a wonderfully lazy afternoon. Dinner was served around seven, followed by a raucous evening of karaoke. I must clarify, for the record, that I am not a fan of karaoke. While my mother has the voice of an angel, my tone-deaf attempts at singing anything over and above childish ditties incite cringing unpleasantness. There is a reason that karaoke is always set up in alcoholic venues and, having foregone the alcoholic offerings at dinner, I was adamantly against participating in karaoke, and against karaoke altogether, if the truth be told. But my attitude softened when my little ham serenaded me with “You’ve Lost That Lovin’ Feeling”; the other guys on the ship joined in for the refrain which made everyone laugh. It was downhill from there.
The two Aussies and the Kiwi in our group took little convincing. Aaron teetered for about five seconds, as we continued to inspect the contents, and then not only acquiesced but pressured me to succumb as well. Of course, I wasn’t having any part of it. “Hell no! My body is a shrine. I’m very discriminating about what goes into it,” I snapped, which immediately conjured up flashbacks of all the bad things that I have allowed into my shrine in the past. There was a time in my life when my insatiable appetite for experience dominated over my judgment – when I would probably have been the first to down the snake wine – but those days are long gone. I had the time of my life but now enjoy my current status as living proof that there is rest for the wicked.
After our rather exciting rest at the café, we took a very brief and mildly pleasant walk into a dense, green national park and then hopped back onto our bikes and headed for the dock. The ride was food for the spirit as we pedaled along, oblivious to time and worldly cares, stopping for photos of the landscape and ringing our bells for the village kiddos. We were happy and light, smiling into the drizzle that broke the heat of the afternoon sun. About a kilometer from the dock, my front tire went flat, probably from all of the potholes on the unsealed road, but it did not deflate my high as my darling husband, ever the gentleman, insisted on walking my bike while I rode the last stretch on his.
Begun in the 1960s as an indigenous revolutionary movement, the Khmer Rouge gained significant power in the early 1970s as thousands of people were killed or made refugees by the widespread covert bombing of Cambodia during the Vietnam-American War. After years of brutal conflict, the Khmer Rouge finally ascended to power in 1975, displacing the weak, corrupt Lon Nol government. The majority peasant class jubilantly celebrated this changing of the guard but the master plan was yet to be revealed; the complete transformation of Cambodia into a Maoist, peasant-dominated agrarian cooperative. Within days, the capital city of Phnom Penh and other provincial cities became ghost towns; everyone in the cities was ordered into the countryside and forced into slave labor. “Enemies of the state”, basically anyone the new regime disliked or distrusted, were summarily executed. Cambodia became Democratic Kampuchea, currency was abolished, public services halted, and the year 1975 became Year Zero. Pol Pot, the mastermind and architect of this new government became Prime Minister. Over the next three years, eight months and 21 days the Khmer Rouge regime killed nearly two million people, eliminating nearly twenty five percent of the population.
On our second day in Siem Reap, we visited the Cambodian Land Mine Museum, created by former Khmer Rouge soldier, Aki Ra. Aki Ra laid thousands of land mines during the war as a young, naïve recruit of the Khmer Rouge. When he realized later what horrific damage was done by the mines to his own people, he singlehandedly began to organize an extensive mine clearing program. Over the years, he has cleared thousands of land mines and has collected enough war remnants to stock his small but impressive museum.
We encountered a startling number of amputees on the streets of Siem Reap. It was heartbreaking to see so many people whose lives were visibly altered by the travesty of war. Much to our surprise, however, the land mine victims did not beg on the streets but rather made honorable attempts to earn a living by selling books and souvenirs on the streets or playing music outside the temples. We were so overwhelmed with respect and admiration for their efforts that we found ourselves buying whatever they were selling. A one-legged man hobbled around the city streets on crutches all day in the hot sun with a small box of books suspended from his neck. Another man with no legs wheeled an arm-powered cart, peddling books and souvenirs. A man who had lost both arms from the elbow down sold beautiful postcard-sized paintings. We didn’t discriminate; we bought it all.
In recent months, our emotions regarding poverty have come full circle. Our sense of compassion, once lost, has returned. It is heart-wrenching to see such desperation – the kind of desperation understood only by those who have known true hunger and the heartbreak of malnourished children – on so many Cambodian faces. In a country with so little economic opportunity, Cambodians simply want to work and provide for their families. Every person with whom we transacted during our brief stay – the little girls who sold bracelets outside the temples; the bookselling amputees; our driver, Pisith, and our guide, Sadith – were overwhelmingly appreciative of our business. We were inspired and humbled by the graciousness and hope of the people. In a war-ravaged country like Cambodia, not so very far from Year Zero, little things truly mean a lot.
Many homes along the roadside were made of woven leaves and bamboo poles while others were built more solidly of wood or stone; almost all of the were built upon stilts, creating a shaded living area underneath, used for storage, lounging and cooking. The homes separated the main road from a vast expanse of glistening rice fields. Chickens ran wild in the villages. Giant gray water buffaloes grazed the fields and soaked in pools of water collected in the trough-shaped paddies. The youngest children ran around stark naked and many older children had no shoes. Animal-powered carts and bicycles were the most common modes of transportation outside the city. The poverty and the landscape bore a striking resemblance to certain parts of Africa, particularly Mozambique. The distant expressions on the faces of the men and women indicated that survival in Cambodia is a daily struggle.
Angkor Wat, meaning temple city, is the flagship of the Temples of Angkor. It is thought to be the largest religious structure in the world. It is surrounded by a moat so wide (190 meters) that I thought it was a river at first glance. As we crossed the moat over the sandstone causeway and walked through the richly decorated stone entrance, the remarkable silhouette of Angkor Wat stood majestically in the distance, its domed towers pointing to the sky. As we approached the central structure, large pools on each side of the main walkway caught the temple’s reflection for a dazzling effect.
Nearby Ta Prohm was a Buddhist temple dedicated to the mother of Jayavarman VII. It is much less well-preserved than some of the other temples – with piles of rubble from fallen stones – and sits rotting in a greenish pall. The temple was built from large blocks of porous lava rock and sandstone, which are now blackened from acid rain and covered in thin moss. Walking through the corridors, it was fascinating to note that the slanted roof was made constructed by laying the heavy stones in balance with one another; there is no mortar holding them together.
The temple was also built by Jayavarman VII and the faces are said to closely resemble his own. The faces are said to represent the four tenets of Buddhism: love & kindness, compassion, sympathy, equanimity. Even without an understanding of Buddhism, one cannot escape the powerful, disarming sensation of being watched by so many faces at once. It is easy to imagine the awe and intimidation that Bayon once commanded of the masses.