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December 11th 2007
Umoja – “The Spirit of Togetherness”

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We reached Durban after a long day in the car and checked into a terrific hostel called Gibela’s Backpackers. We had made the drive with two lovely young German girls whom we’d met on our last night in Coffee Bay. They were pleasant company and, more importantly, they had CDs! The eight hour reprieve from South African radio stations was a welcome change. We would stay only two nights in Durban, South Africa’s third largest city, on our way to Swaziland.

The owner at Gibela’s was friendly and knowledgeable. Before showing us to our rooms, he sat us down with a city map and pointed out areas of interest. He then circled two areas on the map and filled the circles with x’s, instructing us not to go into those areas under any circumstances.

After settling in, Aaron and I walked a few blocks to the restaurant district and splurged on a decadent Italian dinner with a great bottle of pinotage and then retired early to our room. Our past week of travel had taken on a rather furious pace as we realized what a long distance lay between the Garden Route and Nelspruit, where we planned to drop off the rental car. I was in need of some down time so despite the gorgeous sunny weather the next day, I spent the majority of it reading and writing while Aaron sent out the laundry and attended to some other family business around town. He finally coaxed me outside in the early afternoon for a walk to the Victoria Street Market, which is known for its eclectic mix of Indian and African wares. After a couple of wrong turns through some questionable streets (close to but technically not in the “do not enter under any circumstances” areas), we found the market and entered to find the same spices and dime store junk that we’ve found all over Africa. We made one cursory lap around the first floor and then headed back into the sunshine and made our way back to the hostel.

We had bought tickets earlier that morning for a musical theater performance called Africa Umoja. Uta and Stephanie joined us for the show, which was being held at a beautiful new casino just outside of town. “Umoja” is a Swahili word meaning “the spirit of togetherness”. The musical was created to preserve in the hearts of young Africans and share with others the music and dance of African tribal culture as it has transformed through the ages.

As we sat down in the theater, we weren’t sure what to expect but as the lights dimmed and the curtain rose, the power of Umoja took hold of us. It began with a quartet of drummers, in full tribal dress, pounding out their wild, synchronized beats with the ferocity of warriors. As we sat, riveted, the stage filled with a chorus of sleek, beautiful brown-skinned bodies in traditional beaded and multi-colored costumes of the early African tribes. The soulful singers belted out a succession of precisely tuned a cappella harmonies interspersed with passionate solos that sent chills through our bodies. The narrator of the story guided us through two hours of bold, energetic performances of songs and dances, which told a beautiful story of the changing tribal culture from the early years before the white settlers arrived in South Africa, through the painful and dehumanizing apartheid era, to the raucous erotica of today’s youth. One song that nearly brought tears to my eyes was a heartfelt cry into the wind of early apartheid-era women whose husbands left their villages to find work in the new towns, leaving the lonely women to raise the children. Another number was performed by a group of men whose only instruments were the thick industrial galoshes on their feet and the plastic garbage bins which they pounded, slapped and flipped about. It demonstrated that music is in the soul of every African and, no matter how they have struggled and how much has been taken from them, they have always found joy in their God-given beats and melodies.

The passionate performance gave us a greater understanding of the powerful effects of apartheid on the tribal communities than all of our other South African experiences combined. However, the most emotional portrayals of those painful experiences were delivered with a light-hearted humor that allowed the spellbound audience to laugh while still feeling a sting in our hearts.

The remnants of the apartheid that plagued South Africa for generations are still shockingly apparent in the township ghettos which stretch for miles on the outskirts of most major towns. The ghettos consist of hundreds to thousands of ramshackle dwellings, built practically on top of each other and constructed from whatever miscellaneous materials could be secured: scrap metal, wooden slats, old signage and often trash. The township communities house South Africa’s poor black and “coloured” (any mix of African and European descent) citizens and are a stark contrast to the lavish vineyard estates and Western-style homes which house the more affluent, predominantly white population.

As tourists, it is often easy to indulge in the comfortable Western culture of South Africa while putting the stunning economic racial disparity out of our minds…until we drive by the townships on our way to yet another beach town. As we pass by the crude communities, I am emotionally stunned by the darkness of poverty. I cannot help but stare and think about how hard a life must be that begins in there but also how much love, music and laughter is shared.

South Africa has a long way to travel down the road to redemption – a frustrating path of trial and error that our beloved United States has been traversing for the past fifty years. Africa Umoja touched our hearts. At the end, we felt like a part of something positive and inspiring for young Africans with the power and responsibility to make tomorrow better than yesterday. As the finale concluded, we cheered and clapped and, as I looked around the theater, I noticed for the first time the predominantly white audience and a sudden sadness came over me. The ratio of ticket holders for that evening’s performance solidified, in my naïve mind, the reality of just how long is that road to redemption.

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December 8th 2007
Coffee Bay: A Germophobe in a Hostel World

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Coffee Bay is a small hippie surfer town on the Wild Coast and another one of South Africa’s premier surf spots. About two hours off the tourist trail, it is a remote stretch of beach inhabited by Xhosa tribespeople. This would be the venue for Aaron’s thirtieth birthday celebration and I was determined to find a way to make it special.

The drive to Coffee Bay was long, hot, and most memorable for the last two-hour stretch, which was riddled with potholes so deep and treacherous as to give Kenyan roads a run for their money. For added fun, the winding, part gravel, part paved road is the main artery running through the rural tribal hills so both stray farm animals and Xhosa pedestrians present additional obstacles for the already-swerving vehicles. Aaron and I equated driving on that road to real life Pole Position – the old Atari driving video game. Our compact VW Polo bumped along like The Little Engine That Could and somehow reached our hostel without blowing a tire or flattening any Xhosas.

There are only two hostels in Coffee Bay. Coffee Shack is the party place, catering to the younger travelers who stereotypically divide their time equally between the bar and the beach while Bomvu Paradise is a more tame, Bohemian-style setup, which draws the late twenties, early thirties crowd who notoriously come for a few days and end up staying for months. Needless to say, we checked into Bomvu around five p.m. after a full day of driving, dropped our packs and went straight to the bar.

We ordered a couple of post-road trip beers just as the wild child surfer girl at the bar invited us to join a group for sundowners (Translation: watching the sunset from the top of a hill while drinking free wine from a box). Without any more pressing engagements, we signed on and followed the crowd up a very steep, grassy hill just outside the hostel door. It was extremely windy at the top but the ten of us sat around in a circle and passed around the box of wine. Some Xhosa women had followed us up the hill to peddle their bead crafts. Since it became clear upon our arrival at Coffee Bay that I would have no chance of securing any of the traditional birthday supplies, I picked my Birthday Bear a $3 beaded necklace in the colors of Africa. It wasn’t much but it was something. Four local boys had also followed us and sat shyly away from us, giggling until they managed to get up the nerve to ask if they could sing and dance for us. The group of us pooled our change, which the boys gleefully divided after they had exhausted their repertoire of ethnic ditties and dances.

There are no restaurants in Coffee Bay so both hostels have resident Xhosa chefs and we walked down the hill just in time for dinner. Afterwards, Aaron participated in a tribal drum workshop while I opted for a shower and a book.
The guest rooms at Bomvu were spread out around the property and ours was located in a dark, private corner just far enough away from the bar. There were shared toilets inside the bar and on the opposite side of the property and there was an outdoor shower near our room on the back side of the bar.

In a normal world, the sheer inconvenience of this setup would cause the left side of my snobby upper lip to curl up in a snarl of displeasure. I am a germophobe in a hostel world. I haven’t always been that way but, in my late twenties and early thirties, I have become increasingly concerned with treating my body like the shrine that God created. Sometime therein, I began obsessing about the cleanliness of my teeth, flossing religiously, performing periodic inspections with my prized dental pick and mirror, and proactively calling my dentist’s office to inform them that it had been almost six months since my last visit! I developed a heightened awareness of potential germ ingestion and developed such preventative habits as washing my hands more frequently, avoiding barehanded contact with public restrooms and door handles whenever possible and never touching my face with unclean hands. I probably don’t even need to add that my germophobic derriere had not touched the seat of a public toilet in ages because, like many women of my generation, I’ve perfected “the hover”.

I do recognize that some of the behaviors to which I’ve just confessed could be characterized as teetering on the border of Obsessive Compulsive. That said, I must also mention that there has been a noticeable decrease in the number of times that I’ve suffered from routine sicknesses, such as the common cold, since I bought my ticket for the Crazy Train. You might be wondering how a germophobe like myself could willingly expose her pristine buns to a world (often a Third World) of public pots. The answer is simple: I stubbornly refuse to let my petty ailments (and trust me when I say that I have a running list) prevent me from doing the things that I want to do. Nevertheless, life on the road has been challenging at times.

The hostel world is certainly an adventurous one, with accommodations in a wide range of cleanliness, convenience and comfort. Aaron estimated that we’ve stayed in about thirty different hostels thus far and we feel like connoisseurs by now. Most places offer private double rooms (sometimes with private bath, sometimes not), dorm-style rooms and, depending on the locale, campsites. We ALWAYS opt to pay a premium for a private room with a private bath if it’s available. We do this for two reasons: One, because we can. Two, because the shared baths are almost invariably shared with twenty-year-old, grungy male backpackers and we all know how those boys leave the bathroom – seats up or sprinkled and usually unflushed. Few things in this world make the bile rise faster in my throat. Also, shared baths usually adhere to the B.Y.O.S. policy (Translation: “Bring your own soap.”) Come on! Even an unabashed germophobe like me doesn’t walk around with a bar of soap (good idea but totally impractical) on her person. I must admit that, even after three months on the road, I still feel an Obsessive Compulsive twinge of panic when I exit the stall to find only water to wash with.

There is also the convenience factor that comes into play when I wake up a minimum of two times during the night to stumble, groggy and bed-faced, to the bathroom. I’ll never forget the night that we spent in Lusaka, Zambia at a place called Chachacha Backpackers. We had been traveling all day and just wanted to relax and go to bed early. We had just come from Zanzibar where we had splurged on one of our most luxurious rooms and I felt my spirits deflate as we were shown to our room at Chachacha – four thin walls with a lumpy bed, located in the courtyard of the property less than twenty yards from the hostel bar. The only toilets were in the main building of the hostel so, twice that night, I had to walk half-asleep in my pajamas through a bar full of rowdy, intoxicated patrons who kept their party going until three a.m. In these scenarios, I keep reminding myself that it could be worse. At least the toilets had seats!

Since we’ve been on the road, I’ve begun to notice gradually increasing levels of tolerance in myself regarding cleanliness. I noticed the first remarkable change at our hostel in Cape Town. We did have a private bath but it had no shower nozzle, just a grimy-looking tub with separate spouts for hot and cold water, making it impossible to combine the two into a single warm stream. There were two options: the communal showers downstairs or a bath! Surely you can guess my opinion on bathing in a hostel bathtub, especially one that gets cleaned (?) by African maids who sometimes have different ideas about what constitutes clean.

The weather in Cape Town was cold, rainy and windy on the first days after our arrival. In my former life of relative luxury, I always felt that the best way to warm up when you’re chilled to the bone is to sink into a hot bath. That particular night, we had just returned, cold and soaked, from our Cape Point adventure and I couldn’t stop shivering. There is no temperature control inside the rooms, aside of the window, so I hesitantly gave the tub an initial inspection. It appeared as though it had not been washed recently, at least not since it was last used and, in reality, probably longer. The germophobe in my head, who usually controls my decision-making process in these matters, was suddenly negotiating with a new contender: Granola Girl. The conversation in my head played out something like this:

Germophobe: There is no way in Hell that I am taking a bath in that filth! Who knows what kind of micro-organisms are crawling around in there, waiting to invade my shrine!

Granola Girl: Oh shut up! You’re OCD! You’re chilled to the bone and a steaming hot bath will feel so nice.

Germophobe: Maybe if I just turn on the hot water for a few minutes, it will rinse off the top-level germs. That would be better right?

Granola Girl: You’re not going to get sick from taking a Goddamn bath!

Germophobe: Fine. I’ll try it but if I get even the slightest touch of a cold or a rash, I’ll have no trouble attributing it directly to this flagrant disregard for germ evasion!

I drew the bath and soaked until I was sufficiently washed and thoroughly warm…and then I did the same thing for the next three nights. By the end of our stay, the tub was obviously filthy and I wondered if that was precisely how the next guest would find it.

Cape Town was a breakthrough and I lived to tell the tale. With that experience under my belt, I was already inspired, by the time we reached Coffee Bay, to take further steps toward becoming less high-maintenance and more granola. When we arrived at Bomvu and noted the toilet and shower situation, I made a command decision. This germophobe is going granola! Bring on the squat toilets! Bring on the camping! I’m just going to roll with it from now on. That is not to say that I’m going to stop shaving and start buying patchouli. It is simply another veil of snobbery lifted and tossed aside. I am not the girl I used to be.

As a right of passage, Aaron and I rebelled against the bathroom setup by brushing our teeth and attending to certain other unmentionable bath activities outside the door of our room in the privacy of our dark corner. The outdoor shower actually turned out to be lovely. The water stream was powerful and hot and the cool night air steamed off my skin as I washed while eavesdropping on bar conversations through the thin wall.

The next morning was December 3rd – Aaron’s 30th birthday. He mentioned taking a surf lesson that day but as we sat at breakfast, looking over the list of available activities – horse rides, cultural tours, abseiling and a couple of different guided hikes – Aaron decided on a hike to Hole in the Wall, a three-hour, nine-kilometer coastal hike to a large rock island wall with a hole in the center. We signed up and waited around for the hike to begin but were eventually informed that the only shuttle bus had a flat tire so they weren’t doing the Hole in the Wall hike that day. There was another, less appealing hike available but my forlorn Birthday Bear frowned because he wanted Hole in the Wall. Next, we took our laptop into the hostel office to try to plug into the internet but it turned out to be an antiquated dial-up connection (shockingly, the first one we’ve encountered on the road) so we couldn’t plug in. Strike two for birthday wishes! Things were looking grim and it wasn’t even nine a.m. but I told him to keep his chin up – things would improve – though I was beginning to have my own doubts.

We sat down for another cup of coffee and were soon joined by two groups of Europeans whom we’d met the previous night. They expressed interest in Hole in the Wall as well and, with enough interest buzzing around the table and visions of Rand (South African $$$) signs dancing around in the manager’s head, Hole in the Wall was suddenly back on the table with the understanding that we would have to find our own way back to Bomvu. Everyone was game and the prospect of doing the hike that he wanted with a fun group of people turned a little Birthday Bear’s frown upside down faster than you can say Lenasaurus Rexasaurus!

The hike took place on a succession of steep, grassy hills that bordered the majestic Wild Coast. The sharp, quad-wrenching ascents were divided by equally sharp knee-wrenching descents with occasional stretches of flat, rocky beach. Up and down, up and down we went for three grueling hours, feeling every year of our age and every beer we’d consumed in the past month. Even in my best shape (and I’m far from that after three months in Africa where you don’t walk anywhere), that hike would have been a challenge. The only one in our group who wasn’t heaving during the ascents was our barefoot Xhosa guide, Tando, who easily climbed each hill with the stealth of a mountain goat.

The scenery from the hilltops was breathtaking with enormous, tubular waves crashing down upon jagged, raw beaches. Cows and goats grazed on the grassy hills dotted with the round clay, thatch-roofed Xhosa houses, distinctive with their bright turquoise paint. The day was slightly overcast which kept us cool and a fierce wind whipped through the hills, nearly blowing me off the trail a few times. As we neared our destination, a group of Xhosa children walked alongside us with their bead and shell crafts for sale. I marveled at the ease with which their nimble young legs carried them effortlessly over the most laborious passes.

The Hole in the Wall was an anti-climactic conclusion to our very intense hike. We sat on a pebble beach, watching the whitewater rush through the hole with each incoming wave. On a nicer day, we might have gone swimming. Instead, Tando led us to the nearby Hole in the Wall Hotel where we could get snacks and cold drinks. With no prospects for finding a ride back to Bomvu, the group decided to have lunch in the bar before starting the painful walk back to town. I made one feeble attempt to negotiate a ride from the lodge owners and, when that didn’t materialize, we started up the long road on foot. Just as I was quietly stewing about how three more hours of those grueling ascents might literally be the death of me, a miracle happened! A white mini-bus, only about half-full, came motoring up the road. Desperately, I hailed the bus. I could sense the driver’s hesitation but, thankfully, he decided to stop. The driver and Tando had a brief conversation in Xhosa, wherein the driver asked Tando if we had money and Tando negotiated a fare of ten Rand apiece. We hopped in, filling every available seat. As we silently rode over the winding, gravel road, I know that each of my peers was quietly sharing my relief that God sent that mini-bus to save our tired bodies from the near-death experience that would surely have resulted from the walk back to Bomvu.

We ended the evening with dinner at Coffee Shack, which was reputed to have better food than Bomvu. The place was packed with forty to fifty young men and women, indulging in the merriment of pre-dinner cocktails. The dinner was excellent but the seating was scarce and we ended up sitting on a stone ledge, nursing our beers and feeling like we were at a high school kegger. We left shortly after dinner and retired to the quiet serenity of Bomvu. With our last Cuban alight, a cappuccino for me and a glass of port for Aaron, we ended the night in a quiet booth with a deck of Uno cards. We are easily amused.

Ten years ago, Coffee Bay may have had a chance of drawing us in. These days, it takes a little more than bars full of young twenties surf bums discussing their alcoholic experiences at the dinner table to keep these yuppies-turned-vagabonds engaged. No sooner had we recovered from the potholed, Pole Position drive than we were right back on it, leaving Coffee Bay and its resident hippies in their perpetual state of Bohemian bliss.


December 7th 2007
Along the Coast: Plett and Jeffreys Bay

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Plettenburg Bay, or “Plett”, is a quiet, hilly resort town on a stretch of shore at the end of the Garden Route. We stayed one night, as we passed through on our journey east, in a hostel run by a group of hefty, no-nonsense, local black women who ran a tight ship. The spotless maze of a property had a cozy tavern in the back with an owner/bartender who greeted everyone by saying, “And how are we intoxicating you today?” and a fresh herb garden in the courtyard, which we were free to plunder.

We spent the day at Central Beach, known as one of the more action-packed of Plett’s three beaches. The beach was swarmed with beautiful young bodies, decked out in the latest trends in beachwear. The age range was probably 17 – 23 and it was a great scene for people watching. We took a spot in the middle of the beach and observed the South African elite teens and twenty-somethings enjoying a day of exhibiting themselves among their peers. Stick-thin, pretty blondes sat in groups, posing for the equally pretty surfer boys who pretended not to notice. Groups of guys sat around smoking sheeshas while taking the “effortless” out of looking “effortlessly cool” with their meticulously coordinated beach attire and accessories. We had to laugh as we reminisced about a time in our lives when “looking cool” was so important.

On the way back to the hostel, we stopped by the supermarket to pick up a few things. We’d been craving spaghetti and decided to try our hand at cooking dinner in the hostel kitchenette. With the help of some fresh herbs from the courtyard garden, our sauce turned out delicious and we remembered how much we enjoy cooking together. We cracked open a bottle of pinotage that we had picked up in Stellenbosch and sat down to a quiet dinner.

The food in Africa has been surprisingly good – we’ve both managed to add a little roundness to our frames – and if there are scarce restaurant choices in a town, many of the hostels have on-site chefs, making it deliciously tempting to indulge in a full meal when all you really need is a light snack. With the rental car, we’ve been spoiled with extra space to carry groceries from place to place but we’re always tempted to dine out, especially along this coastal drive where each little resort town boasts a plethora of tantalizing cuisines. We’ve noticed, however, that just as in most homes, people seem to congregate in the kitchen around mealtime so you can always wander in and join in conversation. On our next stop in Jeffreys Bay, the kitchen would be the venue for one of the warmest and most enjoyable evenings of our trip.

Jeffreys Bay is known for two things: bodacious “Supertube” waves that attract surfers from around the world and surf clothing shops. It was a short drive from Plett so we arrived just before lunch and checked into Cristal Cove Backpackers. Our room wasn’t ready yet so we drove into town for some lunch and shopping. Aaron picked up a t-shirt and a couple of hats while I found a new swimsuit to replace my old one that still smelled like the Dead Sea and a new hat to replace my function-over-fashion brown one that finally disappeared somewhere. I’ve never been much of a hat person but the malaria pills make hats essential for protecting our otherwise exposed faces, which are ultra-sensitive to the sun as a side effect of the antibiotic. I’m always paranoid (that’s a surprise) about premature aging and skin cancer since we’re outside so much these days. By the way, at what age is it no longer “premature” to start aging? Just wondering.

As we drove back to Cristal Cove to drop off our booty and check in to our room, the afternoon sun was just beginning to peek through the clouds and Aaron wanted to hit the beach for a while. The shore was crowded with many more average-looking bodies than we’d seen in Plett. There were a few surfers off to the right of the main beach and many more people with body boards, tumbling in the surf. Still spoiled by the perfect Zanzibar beaches, I had no desire to subject myself to the frigid water. Despite Aaron’s coaxing, I sat on the beach while he took on the thrashing waves for one playful hour.

When we returned to the hostel, Aaron read in the room while I took my book into the common kitchenette and living area, which we shared with only one other guest room. Before long, a group of friendly people from the neighboring room walked through the door with an adorable little boy and several bags of groceries. The two married couples were warm and talkative and we began chatting as the two women prepared dinner. I liked them immediately and could tell that they were good-hearted, down-to-earth people. Vanessa and Ricardo and Charles and Pam with their two-year-old son, Jethro, were in town from Port Elizabeth for a weekend church function. I fell in love with little Jethro, who smiled incessantly, climbed all over everything, as little boys do, and ate up all of the attention that he was getting from his new Auntie Tina. Aaron soon emerged from the room and the group of us shared in great conversation all evening while Jethro provided constant entertainment.

Pam was cooking up a big English breakfast the next morning and invited us to join them. We woke to the smells of eggs, bacon, sausage and all of the fixings and we all sat down to a decadent breakfast. The men left shortly thereafter to help set up for the day’s church event but not before leading a prayer in the blessing of our travels. Jethro disappeared with his mom for a few minutes while Vanessa and I tackled the dishes and, in his place, a little pint-sized Spiderman appeared, complete with built-in muscles, which he flexed for us as we fawned all over him. What a little ham! With a long drive to Coffee Bay on the day’s agenda, we bid farewell to the ladies and little Spiderman and hit the road once again.

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December 5th 2007
Wilderness: A Lesson in Attitudes

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The Garden Route: first stop – Wilderness National Park. As we exited the N2 into the tiny town of Wilderness, we were immediately awed by our surroundings. The town was set against a steep rock cliff with posh-looking cabins and B&Bs sprinkled at the base and a few more grandiose cabins at the top. There was one main street with a handful of restaurants, a gas station, a market and an internet café that was already closed for the day by early afternoon.

Our hostel, Fairy Knowe Backpackers was nestled in a thick patch of forest on the edge of the Wilderness National Park. Our room was on the second floor of a quaint little cottage with a steep, narrow handcrafted staircase that, surprisingly, didn’t cause any backpackers to plummet to their deaths during our stay. The room was clean and spacious with noticeably fresh, thick white sheets on the bed. There were two shared bathrooms, one upstairs and one downstairs, which always seemed to be inconveniently occupied, a kitchenette, and several tables and chairs on the wraparound covered patio.

The highlight of our short stay in Wilderness (not counting the absolutely divine escargot appetizer, swimming in butter and fresh garlic and smothered in bacon and melted cheese, which we had for dinner the first night) was a canoe trip on the Touw River inside the national park with a hike to a waterfall.

We arrived at the canoe lodge around ten a.m. with a quiet tension already brewing between us – the kind that inevitably develops when you’ve been with the same person twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week, for a long time without allowing yourselves that much-needed personal space. I, being the more introverted of the two of us, recognize the need in myself and can almost always attribute my blue moods to a need for some time alone.

It takes effort and discipline to maintain balance. I always used to think that my constantly overcommitted work and community action schedule kept me from maintaining that coveted level of emotional and spiritual balance but I realize now that, even without those activities, there will always be potential distractions that I must manage in order to find time for reflection and prayer. Lately, it is only when I sit down to write in my journal, a time when Aaron knows not to disturb me, that I take the time to reach within myself and evaluate my discovery. I have always found writing to be therapeutic. I lack the discipline, however, to push aside all of my distractions and quarantine myself for even thirty minutes each day. I was reminded of the importance of this practice when Aaron and I accompanied Father Michael on an Orthodox mission trip to Mexico. The purpose of the trip was to build a house for a family. We stayed for a week on the property of an Orthodox orphanage for boys. Every morning during that week, the priests, missionaries and orphanage residents would gather in the church for morning prayers. We would then scatter about, find a quiet spot, and take thirty minutes of silence before breakfast. During that time, some people read Scripture or wrote in their journals while others just sat and collected their thoughts. That week, I vowed to make the practice of daily reflection a part of my crazy real life schedule but failed miserably. Still, I haven’t given up. It is a lifestyle change and it requires patience. In the meantime, we’ll try to take quiet moments when we can. But anyway, back to the canoes…

We had called ahead to reserve a canoe so the check-in time was relatively painless and, before we knew it, we were pushing off into the brown water of the Touw River. The first stretch was upstream to a spot where we would bank the canoe and begin the hike. We had been forewarned that excessive flooding had pulled down some trees and scattered debris over the trail but it was still passable. As we approached the first pass where the river diverged, the current grew stronger while the pass became shallow and rocky. We paddled fiercely but erratically and, after four failed attempts, we banked on a sandbar in the middle of the river. The tension in the canoe was rising fast, fueled by the desperation of our frantic and fruitless physical exertion. I sat in the front while Aaron took up the rear but there might as well have been a brick wall between us for as misaligned as our spirits were. With no hope of paddling over the pass, we had to pick up the canoe and portage over the sandbar. Thankfully, each end had a handle but the canoe was heavy and awkward and, with our level of teamwork taking a swift nosedive, the albatross banged clumsily into our legs, causing us to curse and snap at each other. There was even one brief embarrassing moment, when we got the canoe back into the water, where I wanted to turn around and forget the whole canoe experience while Aaron was determined to press on so we were each furiously working our paddles to turn the canoe in opposite directions. If anyone saw us in that moment, before I decided that it was pointless to continue, we must have looked utterly ridiculous!

As we righted ourselves and continued upriver, I turned to my husband and suggested that we try paddling in unison – he agreed. As Aaron called out the strokes – “Two left. Three right. Two left.” – two things happened. We began to move smoothly and swiftly through the water and the tension in the canoe began to dissipate, replaced by the camaraderie of two teammates with a common purpose. Suddenly, we began to notice the beauty of our surroundings: a winding, narrow river cutting through lush wooded mountains. Many parts of the river were shallow and we found ourselves paddling against gravel, rocks and sandbars, though we only had to portage one more time. If this was the depth after heavy rains, we wondered how the river was even passable with normal rains. The upriver stretch was a challenge and, as we rounded the last bend and spotted several banked canoes, marking the entrance to the hiking trail, we were breathlessly jubilated.

We quickly changed into our hiking shoes, pulled our backpack out of the watertight bucket, and set out on the trail. We walked for about an hour through dense forest along the river. The terrain was varied, which made the hike all the more interesting. There were sections of straight, flat trail, dimly lit by the little sunlight that pervaded through the thick mass of green tree branches overhead. There were boulders to climb, bridges to cross, steep inclines and makeshift ladders for sharp declines. The trail was surprisingly well-intact in spite of the excessive rainfall, though there were scattered obstacles of fallen trees and overgrown brush, which required us to bushwhack off the trail a bit. By the time we reached the waterfall – a cluster of large, smooth boulders with water spilling into a succession of pools – we were famished. We climbed over a few rocks to a flat area about halfway up, pulled out the lunch that we’d packed, and made our picnic in the afternoon sun. We had been told that people swim in the pool at the bottom – that the murky brown tint was caused by tannins rather than pollution – but nevertheless, brown water just looks uninviting and we were perfectly content climbing around on the rocks and soaking up the sun.

The canoe ride downriver was effortless in comparison to the upriver stretch. The current seemed so much gentler as it carried us over the shallow sections and small rapids that we’d struggled over earlier. As we pulled the canoe onto the bank near the canoe lodge and collected our belongings, we were both quietly relieved. We drove back to Fairy Knowe and stayed in for the evening, socializing with other travelers and relaxing after our exciting day. The canoe trip was a fulfilling adventure accompanied by an apparently much-needed reminder that it is always better to work as a team than to exhibit snide, snotty behavior and paddle in opposite directions.

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